
Step 2a: What It Takes
🌫️ Introduction: The Price of Admission to Wealth
Everyone wants wealth. But most don’t want to pay the price. They want the freedom, the vacations, the dream house, the stress-free mornings, and the ability to say “yes” to opportunities — without embracing the grind, the discipline, the patience, and the resilience that wealth demands.
This lesson is about clarity. When you say “I want wealth,” what you are truly saying is:
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I am willing to change my mindset.
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I am willing to build habits and discipline.
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I am willing to face resistance and setbacks.
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I am willing to stack skills.
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I am willing to master time and energy.
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I am willing to clarify my vision and purpose.
These are the six pillars. Without them, no strategy or course will save you. With them, even imperfect strategies can succeed.
Wealth is not about what you know first — it is about who you become.
This masterclass will explore each pillar in depth with stories, exercises, and visuals so you not only understand them, but begin living them.
🧱 Pillar 1: The Right Mindset
Mindset is the foundation. Without it, tactics collapse under pressure.
1.1 Growth vs Fixed Mindset
Case Study: Emily
Emily grew up hearing her parents say, “We’re just bad with money.” She repeated that script until she reframed it: “I wasn’t taught money yet.” That shift allowed her to learn investing, start a side hustle, and eventually buy her first rental property.
1.2 Abundance vs Scarcity
Mini-Lecture: Wealth builders never see a pie as fixed. They bake bigger pies.
1.3 Delayed Gratification
Stanford’s Marshmallow Experiment showed that children who could wait for two marshmallows instead of eating one immediately were more successful decades later. Wealth is adult marshmallows.
Exercise 1: Write your 3 strongest limiting beliefs about money. Reframe them into growth-oriented beliefs. Example:
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Fixed mindset: “I’m just not good with money.”
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Growth mindset: “I can learn new skills and behaviors to master money.”
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Scarcity: Money is limited. If someone else wins, I lose.
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Abundance: Value can be created. Money grows when ideas meet execution.
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Limiting: “I’ll never be debt free.”
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Growth: “I haven’t learned debt discipline yet — but I can.”
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🧱 Pillar 2: Discipline & Habits
Habits create your destiny. Discipline is the bridge between goals and reality.
2.1 Systems Over Willpower
Wealthy people don’t rely on motivation — they rely on automation and routines.
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Automate savings and investments.
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Use weekly “money meetings.”
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Block time for learning.
2.2 Micro-Habits → Macro-Wealth
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Skipping Starbucks won’t make you rich — but consistent conscious choices compound.
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$10/day invested at 8% = $1M in 40 years.
2.3 Case Study: Marcus
Marcus earned $80k but never built wealth. He started auto-investing $500/month. Ten years later, he had $100k invested — without “feeling” the sacrifice.
Exercise 2: Draft your Wealth Habits Contract. List 3 non-negotiable habits you’ll follow for 90 days (e.g., “I will save 15% automatically,” “I will spend 30 minutes weekly tracking money”).
🧱 Pillar 3: Resilience & Dealing with Resistance
You will encounter resistance — from others and yourself.
3.1 External Resistance: Negative People
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Friends mock your frugality.
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Family calls your side hustle “a waste.”
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Society pressures you to consume.
3.2 Internal Resistance: Fear & Doubt
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Imposter syndrome (“Who am I to build wealth?”).
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Fear of failure.
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Fear of success.
3.3 Case Study: Sarah’s Side Hustle
Sarah failed 3 times with small businesses. Each failure taught a critical skill (marketing, logistics, negotiation). On the 4th try, she succeeded — and credits her failures for her win.
Exercise 3: List 3 voices of negativity (people or thoughts). Write one strategy to reduce each one’s influence.
🧱 Pillar 4: Skills & Learning
Skills compound faster than money. The more you learn, the more leverage you create.
4.1 Wealth Stages & Skills
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Stage 1 ($0–$1k): Sales, customer service, budgeting.
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Stage 2 ($10k–$50k): Marketing, operations, cash flow tracking.
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Stage 3 ($50k–$250k): Leadership, team building, real estate analysis.
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Stage 4 ($250k–$1M+): Capital allocation, advanced tax strategies, portfolio construction.
4.2 The Stack Effect
Sales + Marketing + Negotiation = Entrepreneurial power.
Finance + Analytics + Tech = Investor’s edge.
4.3 Case Study: Andre
Andre worked in IT but learned copywriting. He combined tech and persuasion, launched a SaaS, and scaled to $1M ARR in 3 years.
Exercise 4: Create a Skill Map. Rate yourself 1–10 in: Sales, Marketing, Leadership, Negotiation, Investing, Systems. Pick 1 to develop next.
🧱 Pillar 5: Time & Energy Mastery
Money you can lose and earn again. Time you cannot.
5.1 The Time vs Money Matrix
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Quadrant 1: Low time, low money → survival.
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Quadrant 2: High time, low money → learning.
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Quadrant 3: Low time, high money → trapped.
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Quadrant 4: High time, high money → freedom.
5.2 Buying Back Time
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Delegate tasks.
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Outsource errands.
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Automate processes.
5.3 Case Study: David
David ran a business but worked 80 hours/week. When he hired a VA, he freed 15 hours/week to focus on sales. Revenue doubled in 6 months.
Exercise 5: Audit last 7 days. Color code hours as investing (skills/assets) vs consuming (entertainment, busy work).
🧱 Pillar 6: Vision & Purpose
Without vision, discipline collapses. Without purpose, wealth feels empty.
6.1 Define Your Why
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Freedom from stress.
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Experiences with family.
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Impact and legacy.
6.2 Wealth Without Purpose = Emptiness
Lottery winners prove money alone doesn’t fix life.
**Case Study: Nina
Nina built a business, sold it for $5M, and spiraled into depression — until she used her wealth to start a foundation for foster youth.
Exercise 6: Write your Wealth Statement. Example:
“I build wealth to buy freedom for my family, to give generously, and to live fully.”
🏁 Conclusion
Wealth isn’t complicated — but it is demanding. It requires:
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A growth, abundant mindset.
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Discipline forged in habits.
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Resilience against resistance.
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Skills that compound.
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Mastery of time and energy.
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A vision bigger than yourself.
This is what it takes. The question isn’t whether the path works. The question is: Will you walk it?
Below is a Self Paced Lesson Plan.
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🧭 Self-Study Course: Step 2a — What It Takes
📌 Course Objective
By the end of this self-study course, you will:
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Understand the six pillars of wealth-building (Mindset, Discipline, Resilience, Skills, Time Mastery, Vision).
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Identify your current strengths and weaknesses.
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Create personalized action commitments to begin embodying these pillars.
⏱️ Suggested Pace
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Total Time: 90–120 minutes.
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Recommended: Work through one pillar at a time (15–20 minutes each).
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You may also spread this across 6 days, doing one pillar per day.
🗂️ Course Structure
Module 1: Orientation (10 min)
Read: Introduction — “Why most people fail at wealth-building.”
Reflect: Write down 3 reasons you believe people in your circle aren’t wealthy.
Action: Circle one of those reasons that also applies to you.
Module 2: Pillar 1 — Mindset (20 min)
Learn: Growth vs fixed mindset. Abundance vs scarcity. Delayed gratification.
Reflect: List 3 limiting beliefs you hold about money.
Action Worksheet:
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Reframe each limiting belief into an empowering statement.
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Example: “I’m bad with money” → “I can learn to manage money like a skill.”
Module 3: Pillar 2 — Discipline & Habits (20 min)
Learn: Wealth is built by systems, not willpower. Small habits compound.
Reflect: What is one habit you already have that helps your finances? One habit that hurts them?
Action Worksheet: Draft your Wealth Habits Contract:
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Choose 3 daily/weekly non-negotiables for the next 90 days.
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Example: Automate 10% savings, track weekly spending, read 10 minutes/day about money.
Module 4: Pillar 3 — Resilience (15 min)
Learn: Resistance will come from people (external) and from your own doubts (internal).
Reflect: Who are 3 negative voices in your life? (Friends, family, self-talk.)
Action Worksheet: Write 1 boundary or coping strategy for each.
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Example: “When my friend mocks my side hustle, I’ll say, ‘I’m building something bigger — let’s talk about it in 2 years.’”
Module 5: Pillar 4 — Skills & Learning (20 min)
Learn: Wealth grows faster when you compound skills.
Reflect: Rate yourself 1–10 on: Sales, Marketing, Leadership, Negotiation, Investing, Systems.
Action Worksheet:
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Identify your lowest-rated skill.
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Write 3 resources (books, videos, mentors) you will use to improve it in the next 90 days.
Module 6: Pillar 5 — Time & Energy Mastery (15 min)
Learn: The Time vs Money Matrix: freedom comes when you buy back your time.
Reflect: Review the past 7 days. How many hours did you spend investing in yourself (skills, assets) vs consuming (entertainment, busy work)?
Action Worksheet: Write one commitment to shift 2–3 hours from consumption to investment this week.
Module 7: Pillar 6 — Vision & Purpose (15 min)
Learn: Purpose fuels discipline. Without vision, habits collapse.
Reflect: Why do you want wealth? For freedom? Family? Legacy? Security?
Action Worksheet: Write your Wealth Statement:
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“I build wealth to [reason 1], [reason 2], and [reason 3].”
Module 8: Integration & Commitment (15 min)
Review: Revisit your worksheets for all six pillars.
Action Steps:
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Post your Wealth Habits Contract where you’ll see it daily.
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Block 2 hours in your calendar this week to practice your chosen skill.
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Read your Wealth Statement every morning for 7 days.
🏁 Course Completion Checklist
You’ve finished Step 2a when you can say:
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I have reframed 3 limiting beliefs.
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I created a Wealth Habits Contract.
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I identified 3 negative voices and wrote strategies.
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I rated and chose 1 skill to grow.
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I committed to shifting time from consumption to investment.
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I wrote my Wealth Statement.
